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NJ Pastor is Offline (Part 2)

Adding a “Part 2″ to my original article wasn’t my plan.  But someone sent me this link and I knew I had to address the issue again.

As I wrote my initial response, I considered throwing out the idea that the urgency and irrationality of this pastor’s efforts was probably linked to personal guilt.  I could have said that he is making this firm stand, and forcing his people to take it too, because he was guilty of what he is denouncing.

Well, I didn’t add that to my previous post.  I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt.  Unfortunately, I was right in my hunch.

In no way would I imply that everyone who takes a firm or irrational stand on something is guilty of it….but it has been the trend in high profile religious scandal recently.  This makes me sick…but it is also very frustrating.

Along with what I discussed in Part 1, it is helpful to remember some biblical truth here:

And he called the people to him and said to them,  ”Hear and understand: 11it is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person.”12Then the disciples came and said to him, “Do you know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this saying?” 13He answered, ”Every plant that my heavenly Father has not planted will be rooted up. 14Let them alone; they are blind guides. And if the blind lead the blind, both will fall into a pit.” 15But Peter said to him, ”Explain the parable to us.” 16And he said, ”Are you also still without understanding? 17Do you not see that whatever goes into the mouth passes into the stomach and is expelled? 18But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person. 19For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander. 20These are what defile a person. But to eat with unwashed hands does not defile anyone.”

Matthew 15:10-20 (ESV- emphasis added)

Like the apostles needed to see, we need to see what the real issue is here.

The problem is not Facebook….or Twitter….or alcohol…or guns…etc.  The problem is what is in our heart.  What is in our heart will come out, through our words and our actions, and will show who we are.

We could rid the world of every form of social media and guess what….people will still find ways to have inappropriate relationships.  We could bring back prohibition and you know what….people will still turn to something to give them relief…something other than God.

Of course there are some things that are evil in and of themselves (pornography, human trafficking, etc) and I don’t want to stir up confusion here.  But in this case with the Facebook denouncing pastor, the real issue is clear.

We, as fallen creatures, have a problem with sin.  Most of the time we don’t want to acknowledge that problem but would rather put the blame on someone or something else.  That is the way it has been since the garden of eden…and it will remain this way until Christ reigns in Glory.

Until then, we need pastors and other children of God to stand up and confess their sin, be discerning in their thoughts and behavior, and compel others to explore Christ because of their humility not their self-righteousness.

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NJ Pastor is Offline (Part 1)

If you haven’t heard about pastor that is telling his staff to get off Facebook, you can read about it here and here.

In my opinion, the pastor is misinformed and moving in a direction that is simply not helpful.

Here is his main argument:

In his pastoral counseling, he has seen a increase of people using Facebook to reignite old flames.  People essentially think that what they are doing is hidden and anonymous.  This leads to a trail of deception and is highly damaging to their marriages and families.

Of course, this is true.  People are guilty of this.  However, I don’t think that the problem is the social network itself.  I definitely don’t think the answer is leaving the network in protest.  Yet this is what he has determined for the others on staff:

It’s to the point now that this Sunday, anyone in our church in a leadership position and who is married and is on Facebook has to resign their church position if they do not give up Facebook.

Bad idea…and it really doesn’t make sense.

Suppose people use automobiles to drive themselves to bad places where they engage in bad behavior.  Are the cars to blame…or the roads…should they be abandoned and torn up.  Or what about those pesky restaurants where people eat way too much food.  Should we stop going to out to eat.

It is the same with social networking.  Sure, people abuse it.  People take advantage of the connection it enables and use it for sinful purposes.  Since the dawn of time this is the plight of man.

Most importantly, we should not remove ourselves from the environments that so desperately need the Gospel.  A better line of action would be to encourage our pastors and leaders to engage their communities and people through the social networks.  We should show that our ‘online life’ and our real life actually have no distinction.

If we are so quick to remove ourselves from such engagement, we may actually be ensuring that the negative and destructive behavior will remain unchecked.

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Facebook…and the Glory of God?

Facebook LogoI thought this was an interesting and helpful blog post from Stephen Altrogge (The Blazing Center)

Click here for the full article

Here are a couple of quotes:

We were made for real, person-to-person relationships. Superpoking, chatting, and throwing snowballs at each other doesn’t constitute biblical fellowship. God created us to “bear one another’s burdens” (Gal. 6:2), “meet together” (Heb. 10:25), “rejoice with those who rejoice”, and “weep with those who weep” (Rom. 12:15) This doesn’t usually happen in a meaningful way on Facebook.

Just like television, music, and movies, Facebook is a loaded gun when it comes to temptation. Flirting, sexually immoral applications, sensual sidebar ads, inappropriate pics uploaded by friends – it’s all possible. Can it be avoided? Sure. But the fact that it exists should put us on guard every time we log in.


Stephen also lists a couple of links to some similar articles:

Al Mohler: Thoughts on Social Networking

Tim Sweetman: Facebook Faceoff

 

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